Talented and Successful Gay Asian Commits Suicide

When I read the New York Times article “Tobias Wong, Witty Designer and Conceptual Artist Dies at 35“, I felt sad that the world had lost an important artistic talent.  But I’m also sad that the Gay Asian community has lost an impressive role model.

This story has an impact on me not merely because Tobias is a gay Asian, but because we are the same age.  What goes on in the mind of a thirty-something gay Asian?  I’m not going to conjecture on why he killed himself, but his death gave me pause to reflect on my own life.

Thirty-five.  Have I hit the pinnacle of my life?  Have I contributed anything to society?  Am I making a difference?  His suicide happened as I am starting this site, just when these questions have bothered me enough to do something.  Where is the “Just Do It” attitude of my twenties?  Do I have enough time to try something big before I hit that midlife crisis bump?  This is why I have created this site.

 After Tobias, the art world, and what this means to me, my next thought was how this might play to the wider world. Is it bad press for gay Asians?  Although it’s hardly a fair comparison, Andrew Cunanan – the highly publicized crazy gay Asian – came to mind.

Maybe it is good press, as Tobias Wong was a very talented artist that people may not be familiar with.  Then my more cynical side thinks, “who cares?”  Outside of our community, are gay Asians considered newsworthy?  Most importantly, do we try hard enough to do things that make a difference?  Tobias Wong did.  Maybe his death will inspire you to do something too.

Aric Chen gives a great tribute to his friend and colleague here:
http://www2.hintmag.com/post/in-memoriam-tobias-wong–june-02-2010

Laura Sweet posts a good representation of Tobias Wong’s work here:
http://ifitshipitshere.blogspot.com/2010/06/work-of-tobias-wong-may-he-redesign.html

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15 Responses to Talented and Successful Gay Asian Commits Suicide

  1. FUCK_OFF_RACIST_WHITE_GAYS says:

    Who again? I’ll never be able to remember Arika Chan, Erica TOKEN GAY ASIAN Useless SHIT, or what-ever WHITE-ARSE Kissing GAY Asian LOOSERS out there!! {roll my eyes}

    GAY ASIANS tell their stories (more GAY Attention Whores BS)….
    http://www.sbs.com.au/news/video/2203449159/Gay-Asians-tell-their-stories

    Andrew Phillip Cunanan is one of our GAY ASIAN MEN, and I (Hetero-Sexual Asian Man) still remember who he is even to this day while watching his deed unfold on TV at 1997! In fact, my INTERNET SEARCH of him led me here! Anyhow, he sure didn’t let those RACIST WHITE BIGOTS beat him and get away with it! It is obviously those RACIST WHITE GAYS abused him literally in his PERSONAL LIFE enough because most people don’t just become like that! Of course, RACIST WHITE MEDIA will never show us his TRUE MOTIVE FOR REVENGE but as a SUB-HUMAN as they always tried to portray ALL of our ASIAN MEN as GAY and WEAK or PUSH-OVER & DOORMAT!! >=(

    Andrew Phillip Cunanan….
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrew_Cunanan

    Taurus PT100 Review….

    Racism in the Gay Community: Racist Gays….

    MALCOLM X: You’re Afraid To Bleed!….

    Racist Imperial British Empire in India….

    Andrew Phillip Cunanan is actually COOL for a GAY ASIAN GUY! I would like to own his GUN, Taurus PT100, for a CONVERSATION PIECE, of course! He sure killed off those RACIST WHITE GAYS like Gianni Versace & so on! Those LOW-LIFES at JEWISH owned and GAY controlled GLOBAL MASS-MEDIA sure didn’t see that coming! I hoped more of our GAY ASIAN MEN can learn a thing or two from him and started PACKING HEAT and even SCORES for our ASIAN RACE…. haha!! >=)

  2. FUCK_OFF_RACIST_WHITE_GAYS says:

    GAY Asians fight STEREOTYPES….
    http://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/1630429/Gay-Asians-fight-stereotypes

    Are YOU really fighting those STEREOTYPES or RE-INFORCING them? Our ASIAN MEN are not STEREOTYPED as UGLY! We are STEREOTYPED as all GAY & all WEAK! Please get your FACTS straight! Most of our ASIAN MEN are really HETERO-SEXUAL, which is at least 96% and onward!! {roll my eyes}

    Why are Asian men stereotyped as gay or effeminate?….
    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20111030211316AAjMMNR

    Personally, I would like to call GAY ASIAN MEN as our ASIAN BRO, but most of them seems to just hated our HETERO-SEXUAL Asian BROTHERS all together! Why is that? Do YOU see RACIST WHITE GAYS fighting and dying for their GAY RIGHTS when those WHITE PEOPLE had MONEY + POWER & WHITE PRIVILEGES more than any of our NON-WHITES out there? They certainly are not wasting their time over those GAY RIGHTS at all!! =/

    Here are our SELF-HATING ASIAN GAYS:

    Openly Gay Lieutenant Faces Discharge (fighting for RACIST WHITE GAYS)….

    John Cho and their GAY SUPPORTERS (our ASIAN PARENTS didn’t bring us over here to suck GAY DICKS either and be their DOOR MATS)….

    GAY WHITEY Ellen Degeneres imitates William Hung and making FUN of our ASIAN PEOPLE….

    2 Broke Girls : Karaoke Night (showing how WEAK our ASIAN PEOPLE are)….

    Another GAY WHITEY Rosie O’Donnell CHING CHONG to our ASIAN PEOPLE….

    Asians Hate You Miley Cyrus! (TOKEN “GAY” ASIANS just don’t care, but they sure fight tooth and nails for WHITEY GAY RIGHTS)….

    Best of Uncle Ruckus (can’t wait to WHITE-WASH our ASIAN RACE)….

    Michael Jackson Face Transformation (that is how our GAY ASIANS will be)….

    George Carlin – Euphemistic Language….

    George Carlin talks about advertising….

    George Carlin – Dealing With Homelessness….

    Here are where those RACIST WHITE GAYS really hang-out mostly at:

    Joy Behar Talks To Gay Bishop Jim Swilley & His Ex-Wife Debye Swilley….

    JOEL OSTEEN: GAYS GET INTO HEAVEN!!….

    Bishop Eddie Long CNN intervew with Ted Haggard (GAY-As-Hell VIDEO where ONLY GAYS can have a MIC to speak)….

    Ted Haggard Bashing Gays….

    Rush Limbaugh Speaks Chinese?!? (more REPRESSED GAYS)….

    FAGracrombie and Itch (TWO GAY MEN APPARELS)….

    Black Man In Hollywood Exposed….

    Lou Pearlman Arrested Video….

    REAL MEN PREFER A CLOSE SHAVE with Justin Timberlake (I didn’t know REAL MAN suck Lou Pearlman’s GAY DICK)….

    REAL MEN DO THEIR OWN LAUNDRY with Ashton Kutcher….

    HOT KISS ASHTON KUTCHER (Okay, that’s REAL MEN there by being HYPOCRITE Closet GAYS)….

    Brad Pitt on Prop 8 (a REPRESSED GAY supporting their GAYS)….

    Gay Hollywood Icons (where GAY WHITE LEADING MEN pretend to be STRAIGHT when they are mostly GAYS)….

    Dick Cheney Offers Support For Gay Marriage (as long as they are WHITE)….

    Hypocrite Foley on AMW: “If I were one of these sickos…”….

    Barney Franks Male Prostitution Scandal (gave us HOUSING BUBBLE and sure put our TAX MONEY to work there)….

    Jim McGreevey Discusses Rutgers Suicide (HOMELAND SECURITY by GAY AGENTS and DOMESTIC SPYING & even STALKING/HARASSMENT on AMERICANS)…..

    Lying Politicians And Words….

    George Carlin: The Illusion Of Choice….

    Where is our EAST ASIAN MEN with EAST ASIAN WOMEN COUPLES and CUTE EAST ASIAN KIDS like Bill Cosby and George Lopez shows? Why aren’t YOU as ASIANS (GAY or not) supporting to have that? And, don’t give BS on how HETERO-SEXUAL EAST ASIANS oppressed YOU from our EAST ASIAN COMMUNITY! Most ASIANS don’t care except those ASIAN PARENTS wanting to have ASIAN KIDS and GRAND KIDS! Is supporting RACIST WHITE GAYS more important than your own ASIAN RACE? That is what I and most ASIANS would like to know!! =/

  3. Kurt says:

    Dear FUCK_OFF_RACIST_WHITE_GAYS,

    No doubt many Asians, gay or straight, male or female, have suffered discrimination. But that doesn’t seem an adequate explanation of your incoherent rant. Besides which, Gay Asian Geek doesn’t dispute this point, so why have you chosen this forum to make your complaints? Wouldn’t it be better to find an actual racist to attack?

    You say so many things, and post so many videos, that it’s impossible to to tell exactly what point you are trying to make. However, you SEEM to be saying that gay Asian men are making it worse for straight Asian men who already have to fight racist stereotypes. If that’s true, you are engaging in the same kind of stereotyping of gay Asian men, that you are complaining about when it is directed at straight Asian men. Wouldn’t it be better to make common cause against all anti-Asian stereotyping, rather than scapegoat other members of you own ethnicity?

    What’s certain is that you are vey, very angry, and — for a straight guy — seem more than a little obsessed with homosexuality. The “stereotypical” response would be to assume that you are a closet case yourself, and I wouldn’t be surprised if that’s true. But even if not, you’ve certainly externalized your anger (whatever its source) against gays , using energy which might be better used trying to understand yourself.

    • FUCK_OFF_RACIST_WHITE_GAYS says:

      Kurt,

      “You say so many things, and post so many videos, that it’s impossible to to tell exactly what point you are trying to make. However, you SEEM to be saying that gay Asian men are making it worse for straight Asian men who already have to fight racist stereotypes. If that’s true, you are engaging in the same kind of stereotyping of gay Asian men, that you are complaining about when it is directed at straight Asian men. Wouldn’t it be better to make common cause against all anti-Asian stereotyping, rather than scapegoat other members of you own ethnicity?”

      Yes, that’s exactly what I’m saying when GAY Asian MEN working at those JEWISH owned and GAY controlled GLOBAL MASS-MEDIA sure worked really hard to promote more HATRED toward our Asian MEN while driving a wedge between our ASIAN WOMEN (vise versa), which is to create massive SELF-HATE on our ASIAN RACE and attempt to wipe out our ASIAN RACE as a whole outside of ASIA!! >=(

      John Cho on ASIAN MAN with BLACK WOMAN but not with ASIAN WOMAN….

      John Cho on ASIAN MAN with WHITE WOMAN but not with ASIAN WOMAN….

      No on Proposition 8 John Cho – Actor, Young Father (now, he fight tooth and nail for GAY RIGHTS, but FUCK those ASIAN MEN with ASIAN WOMEN COUPLES and CUTE ASIAN KIDS at USA; and, FUCK our ASIAN RACE outside of ASIA because showing any of our REAL ASIAN PEOPLE would be just RACISM)….

      Where is your GAY Asian MEN fighting for all of our ASIAN MEN again? YOU do not fight for any our ASIANS, and don’t even pretend that those GAY Asian MEN are fighting against any RACIST ASIAN STEREOTYPES when YOUR GAY KINDS are RE-INFORCING it daily with ASIAN MEN as GAY and WEAK, which established ASIAN as LOWER HIERARCHY when we made more MONEY than NON-WHITES these days!! {roll my eyes}

      Here is our ASIAN WOMAN with Miwa Asao (where are YOU fighting to show that in any of your GAY controlled MASS-MEDIA like FASHION INDUSTRIES)….

      More ASIAN WOMAN with Lai Ying Tzu….

      And, ASIAN WOMAN with Guo JingJing….

      Jang Dong-gun & Ko So-young (why is that not on SILVER SCREENS at USA instead of that ASIAN WOMAN HATING –> The Warrior’s Way)….

      Why don’t YOU Show those kind of HOT ASIAN WOMAN with our HOT ASIAN MAN on any of SILVER SCREENS especially at USA, which is another GAY controlled MASS-MEDIA!? =/

      • Kurt says:

        The supposedly Jew- and Gay-owned media (I happen to be both, although strangely, I have no control over the media) is a business, and people in any kind of business are mostly interested in making money. If they push an ideological agenda — however justified — that their audience rejects, is simply not interested in, they don’t make money. I don’t know the whole back story to Glee, and I’ve only seen a few minutes of one episode, but it wouldn’t have several gay characters if its (mostly straight) audience reacted by changing the channel. A decade or two ago that might have happened, and the show would have cancelled — no matter how many gay executives liked it. (By the way, for all the prominence of gays and especially Jews, the ownership of many media companies is often neither gay nor Jewish. Rupert Murdoch? SONY? Not to mention that these are public companies. Their ultimate owners are largely non-Jewish, non-gay shareholders who are motivated by profits above all.)

        I’m old enough to remember the popular black TV shows in the 1970s: The Jeffersons, Sandford & Son, etc. It’s probable that Jewish, gay, and liberal television producers liked the idea of entirely black shows, but if a broad audience wasn’t ready for it, it wasn’t going to happen. It’s interesting that you use John Cho as an example. One of the things that immediately struck me about “Harold and Kumar go to White Castle” is that the two heros are an East Asian and a South Asian, and this is simply a given, rather than being the point of the film. The filmmakers assumed that a young male (and majority white) audience wouldn’t care, and it turned out that they were right, as it was an immensely popular film, which has also produced two (far inferior) sequels.

        Harold and Kumar are presented as normative American bros, and while their Asian backgrounds are played for laughs (Kumar’s doctor father who insists he go to medical school; the hero worship of Harold by Asian Princeton students because he’s an investment banker), there’s nothing mean-sprited about it. In fact, the comedy is based on how ALL middle-class young straight men feel when they are pushed into high-status/money making careers, when all they really want to do is get stoned and have sex (but mostly get stoned). But Harold is good at his job, Kumar eventually agrees to go to Med school, and the real losers are the full-time stoner Jewish dudes down the hall (probably stand-ins for the filmmakers, who may still be stoners, albeit successful ones).

        What probably bothered you the most, assuming you saw the film, is that Harold is hot for the white chick he sees in the elevator, rather for some Asian girl. You have a point, because I think that the broader audience remains less interested in an Asian couple than in a white guy and an Asian chick, or even the reverse (admittedly much less common). But is this really because “the” gays and “the” Jews are pushing an anti-Asian agenda, or because they want the cash registers to ring, and that means they have to appeal to straight, white guys? That this can already be done with two Asian leads is good news, and we’ll see more Asians in mainstream movies over time, just as we saw more Irish characters starting in the 40s, more Jewish and Italian characters in the 60s & 70s, more black and Latino characters in the 70s & 80s, and more gay characters starting in the 90s.

        With the partial exception of blacks (for historical reasons), the United States has been the country where its easiest for minority groups to be accepted. But this takes time and familiarity, and that process is still fairly recent for Asians (except for the west coast and Hawaii, Asians were a very small percentage of the population of this country until the last few decades). Even so, much has already changed. When I went to Columbia in the 80s, it was about 30% Jewish, who were the most visible and active group: the highest percentage of posters you saw around school were for Jewish activities. When I took a few classes there only ten years lately, it seemed as if Asians were as well-represented on campus, and I imagine that’s even truer today. There are still many racists, of course, and these include some Jews and gays. But if you really knew what you are talking about, you’d also know that — overall — Jews and gays are probably among the most pro-Asian groups in the country. In my experience they seem much more likely to date or marry Asians, and recent surveys bear this out: about twice as likely than the average white person.

        This gets to a fundamental confusion in your point of view. On the one hand, you strongly resent the anti-Asian bigotry that one still sees (sadly) in this country; on the other, you also strongly resent mixed-race couples. I’ll paraphrase: “Asian parents didn’t being us here to do that, etc.” Where do you think you are? Whatever Asian parents may have hoped for their children’s marriages, the main reason they came here was so that their children could have a better life, which is the same reason most immigrants have come here over this country’s entire history. Most of the first generation, wherever they come from, don’t do it for themselves. It’s very hard to move to a new country as adults, and they work like dogs once they get here. Most of my great-grandparents did that, and most of my grandparents did so when they were younger. I doubt they liked the idea that some of their progeny might marry outside their religion, but that’s a predicable — and to my mind, ultimately desirable — outcome of their choices. And even if they had known that, I believe most of them would still have come, and for the same reason.

        In the US people lose their much of their distinct ethnic identities and allegiances over time. That is sad in some ways, but it is a necessary, even essential, part of what America has always been about, even before the United States came into existence (had the colonists completely retained their English identity they never would have wanted independence). Jews used to say that the there are only two countries where they could ever be accepted as FULL citizens: Israel and the United States. I’m proud of that, not as a Jew, but as an American. Yet it took over a century for it to happen, and it won’t come all at once for Asians, just as it hasn’t yet for gays. When Asians get there, you’ll see less bigotry, male Asians starring in action and romantic movies — AND more intermarriage. It all goes together in the United States. You can’t have one without the other.

        PS: Anyone who posts things on the Internet with a high proportion of CAPITAL LETTERS sounds like a nut. Just saying.

    • FUCK_OFF_RACIST_WHITE_GAYS says:

      Kurt,

      [I can’t reply to your last post, so I’ll do it here!]

      “The supposedly Jew- and Gay-owned media (I happen to be both, although strangely, I have no control over the media) is a business, and people in any kind of business are mostly interested in making money. If they push an ideological agenda — however justified — that their audience rejects, is simply not interested in, they don’t make money. I don’t know the whole back story to Glee, and I’ve only seen a few minutes of one episode, but it wouldn’t have several gay characters if its (mostly straight) audience reacted by changing the channel. A decade or two ago that might have happened, and the show would have cancelled — no matter how many gay executives liked it. (By the way, for all the prominence of gays and especially Jews, the ownership of many media companies is often neither gay nor Jewish. Rupert Murdoch? SONY? Not to mention that these are public companies. Their ultimate owners are largely non-Jewish, non-gay shareholders who are motivated by profits above all.)”

      Blah…. Blah…. Blah…. MONEY this MONEY that, which is STANDARD BULL SHIT kind of EXCUSES when YOUR GAYS run those GLOBAL MASS-MEDIA! It’s still RACISM (and still SEXISM in your case) to preserve those STATUS QUO at end of days! Our ASIANS are not doing that! Your GAYS are doing exactly that when those POWER is simply in your hands!! =/

      How George Carlin deals with Globalism (NWO)….
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7f0GStBCeUU

      “What probably bothered you the most, assuming you saw the film, is that Harold is hot for the white chick he sees in the elevator, rather for some Asian girl. You have a point, because I think that the broader audience remains less interested in an Asian couple than in a white guy and an Asian chick, or even the reverse (admittedly much less common). But is this really because “the” gays and “the” Jews are pushing an anti-Asian agenda, or because they want the cash registers to ring, and that means they have to appeal to straight, white guys? That this can already be done with two Asian leads is good news, and we’ll see more Asians in mainstream movies over time, just as we saw more Irish characters starting in the 40s, more Jewish and Italian characters in the 60s & 70s, more black and Latino characters in the 70s & 80s, and more gay characters starting in the 90s.”

      Isn’t it IRONIC that YOU demand EQUALITY for GAYS, yet YOU can’t even show our HOT ASIAN MEN and HOT ASIAN WOMEN COUPLES and CUTE ASIAN KIDS on your JEWISH owned and GAY controlled GLOBAL MASS-MEDIA? At end of days, YOU just wanted MOST THINGS to stay exactly SAME with your precious WHITE PRIVILEGES in-tact! YOU and your GAY KINDS shouldn’t even be complaining about any DISCRIMINATION toward GAYS when YOU just don’t really care about TRUE EQUALITY when comes down to it!! {roll my eyes}

      Bruno Official Movie Trailer….

      That’s not REAL GAYS in REAL LIFE! They sure LEAVE NO GAY CLICHE UNTURNED there! Did it sell like TITANIC (chick flick) or sell like The Dark Knight (guy flick)? I guess SEXISM and also RACISM just PAID so well there with your B-RATED FILMS!! >=P

      [Back to same post on ASIAN MEN being GAY and WEAK]

      “What’s certain is that you are vey, very angry, and — for a straight guy — seem more than a little obsessed with homosexuality. The “stereotypical” response would be to assume that you are a closet case yourself, and I wouldn’t be surprised if that’s true. But even if not, you’ve certainly externalized your anger (whatever its source) against gays, using energy which might be better used trying to understand yourself.”

      I as ASIAN MEN are already UNFAIRLY LABELED as GAY and WEAK in your RACIST WHITE SOCIETY, so how LOW can I go on that (Is there such a thing as SUPER SUPER GAY ASIAN STATUS?)! We all fight for our SELF-INTERESTS at end of days! BTW, I’m here because when I SEARCH for ASIAN MEN ASIAN WOMEN ROMANCE or similar type of SEARCH, they always take me to some INTER-RACIAL DATING SITES or some GAY ASIAN SITES! Why is that? I know YOU think I’m stupid and don’t know how things works, but I don’t DISLIKE those RACIST WHITE GAYS with CREEPY ASIAN FETISH for NO REASON!! >=(

      Racist Imperial British Empire in India….

      If YOU want to keep this BS HYPOCRISY up, let’s see what will happen when we have ABORT GAY GENES as part of our DAILY HUMAN TECHNOLOGY! We still don’t know who will get completely ABORTED at the end, since YOU are obviously very ANTI-ASIAN and really have NO LEGS TO STAND on except your simply RACISM toward our ASIAN RACE to BREED in USA or any where outside of ASIA!! =/

      • Kurt says:

        So you say that I want Asians to be able to breed in Asia, while you want all fetuses with gay genes aborted. Even were I do accept your untrue assertion that I object to Asians “breeding” here, it seems that I am much more respectful of Asians than you are of gays. But putting that aside, while I think your anger about racism in the US is understandable, apparently you think that all white Americans are racist, so why are you so worked up about Jews and gays in particular?

        You seem especially concerned that white men treat gays as doormats and make them suck their cocks. Even if this was an accurate description of gay Asian-White relationships, I don’t see why a straight Asian with your opinions would give a damn, at least compared to white men taking away his women and producing half-breeds. And why make such as big deal about Ashton Kutcher, Justin Timberlake, Brad Pitt or John Cho? Is it merely an accident that they happen to be very attractive men? (Personally, I don’t care much for Brad, but the majority of people obviously feel otherwise.) Bill Maher also supports gay marriage, but you don’t complain about him. But he’s hardly a good-looking man, and you only seem to care about the the handsome ones.

        When you say that some of these guys are “repressed” homosexuals, though there is no evidence of that, you make me think that perhaps you should be looking in the mirror instead. You even link to Ashton Kutcher’s “hot kiss” with Seann William Scott. Yet it shows two white guys kissing, and has absolutely nothing to do with Asians. My bet is that it secretly turns you on, and wish he was kissing you instead. (I’d rather kiss Seann, but different strokes and all that). You’ve probably watched the clip many times. Given your beliefs, you must find it very disturbing to be attracted to men, especially white men. So disturbing, in fact, that you can’t admit it even to yourself.

      • FUCK_OFF_RACIST_WHITE_GAYS says:

        Kurt,

        [I can’t reply to your last post, so I’ll do it here!]

        “So you say that I want Asians to be able to breed in Asia, while you want all fetuses with gay genes aborted. Even were I do accept your untrue assertion that I object to Asians “breeding” here, it seems that I am much more respectful of Asians than you are of gays. But putting that aside, while I think your anger about racism in the US is understandable, apparently you think that all white Americans are racist, so why are you so worked up about Jews and gays in particular?”

        Our EAST ASIANS are already BREEDING just OKAY in EAST ASIA even though we have FALLING BIRTH RATES at there! It is outside of EAST ASIA and especially in USA that had worried me most! If our EAST ASIANS wanted to be RESPECTED at all and have POLITICAL POWER, we’ll need to have USA POPULATION of 10% or more!! =/

        MEDIOCRACY (your RACIST WHITE GAYS just pretend to be RESPECTFUL of our ASIANS when your RACIST WHITE GAYS practiced EXCLUSION)….

        ‘2 Broke Girls’ Creator on His Show’s Racial Stereotypes: But I’m Gay!….
        http://www.theatlanticwire.com/entertainment/2012/01/2-broke-girls-creator-his-shows-racial-stereotypes-im-gay/47288/#

        Not all WHITE PEOPLE are RACIST! They are really taught by your RACIST WHITE GAY MASS-MEDIA to hate our ASIANS and to keep STATUS QUO of RACISM and SEXISM! I don’t really like your GAYS at all when your RACIST WHITE GAYS are waging this MASS-MEDIA PROPAGANDA WAR on our ASIAN MEN and our ASIAN WOMEN daily at USA!! >=(

        I doubted that GAY GENES can be ABORTED that easily at all, but I hoped that will become REAL with more advancements of SCIENCE! We already have PREGNANCY DETECTION KIT and GENDER DETECTION KIT! I’m sure SEXUAL ORIENTATION DETECTION KIT will be possible in future once GAY GENES is more understood! I see that as BEST WAY and maybe ONLY WAY to finally settle scores with your RACIST WHITE GAYS that hated our ASIAN PEOPLE!! >=)

        “You seem especially concerned that white men treat gays as doormats and make them suck their cocks. Even if this was an accurate description of gay Asian-White relationships, I don’t see why a straight Asian with your opinions would give a damn, at least compared to white men taking away his women and producing half-breeds. And why make such as big deal about Ashton Kutcher, Justin Timberlake, Brad Pitt or John Cho? Is it merely an accident that they happen to be very attractive men? (Personally, I don’t care much for Brad, but the majority of people obviously feel otherwise.) Bill Maher also supports gay marriage, but you don’t complain about him. But he’s hardly a good-looking man, and you only seem to care about the the handsome ones.”

        What the hell are YOU talking about? I just wanted REVENGE plain and simple! Your RACIST WHITE GAYS (you know those CLOSET GAYS) treated not just to ASIAN GAYS like SHIT, but even to your own WHITE GAYS as well as to our NON-WHITES! That’s how I see it so far from my point of view!! {roll my eyes}

        Malcolm X – The Power of Media (if our ASIANS have control of GLOBAL MASS-MEDIA, I, for sure, would be making everyone to love our ASIAN PEOPLE, but RACIST WHITE GAYS and RACIST WHITE JEWS as well are just so SELF-LOATHING and so INFERIORITY COMPLEX that they just wanted to keep STATUS QUO of SEXISM and RACISM when they are really in control of GLOBAL MASS-MEDIA)….

        Dan Savage, Racism Has Its Rewards….
        http://www.womanist-musings.com/2009/09/dan-savage-racism-has-its-rewards.html

        Who is really keeping GAY PEOPLE from having GAY MARRIAGE with SEXISM CRAP like BRUNO, BORAT, and many more from your GLOBAL MASS-MEDIA [very CLOSET GAY INSTITUTION] anyway? And, who is promoting more of those RACIST WHITE/BLACK CHRISTIANS with Ted Haggard and their GAY-As-Hell CHRISTIAN PRIESTS [another CLOSET GAY INSTITUTION]? At end of days, it is your RACIST WHITE GAYS that wanted to keep those STATUS QUO of RACISM and SEXISM more than anyone else! I find it so IRONIC for your RACIST WHITE GAYS such as DAN SAVAGE always blaming BLACK MINORITY and attacking BLACK MINORITY when their RACIST WHITE GAYS are most RESPONSIBLE for those HATRED of GAY MARRIAGE to began with!! =/

        “When you say that some of these guys are “repressed” homosexuals, though there is no evidence of that, you make me think that perhaps you should be looking in the mirror instead. You even link to Ashton Kutcher’s “hot kiss” with Seann William Scott. Yet it shows two white guys kissing, and has absolutely nothing to do with Asians. My bet is that it secretly turns you on, and wish he was kissing you instead. (I’d rather kiss Seann, but different strokes and all that). You’ve probably watched the clip many times. Given your beliefs, you must find it very disturbing to be attracted to men, especially white men. So disturbing, in fact, that you can’t admit it even to yourself.”

        Here YOU go again with more of your GAY BULL SHIT on how every one of our ASIAN PEOPLE all wanted your WHITE PEOPLE! Then, YOU Wording-Jiu-Jitsu to cover up those RACIST WHITE GAYS in HOLLYWOOD when they are GAY-As-Hell and more REPRESSED GAYS than even those GAYS in CHURCHES! Your WHITE PEOPLE especially those in USA had to be most DISGUSTING and FULGY PEOPLE out there in our EARTHLY WORLD, which is LAZY and FAT-As-Hell outside of your MASS-MEDIA DISTORTIONS!! {roll my eyes}

        Obesity in Industrialized Nations….
        https://wiki.geneseo.edu/display/food/Obesity+in+Industrialized+Nations

        All of those INTER-RACIAL DATING and MARRIAGE SHIT are really because many of our GAY ASIAN MEN are so SELF-LOATHING that they projected what they wanted on ALL of our ASIAN MEN when we don’t really care for that BREEDING WITH WHITE RACIST CRAP but to have our own BEAUTIFUL EAST ASIAN BABIES!! >=)

        While My Guitar Gently Weeps(ukulele)….

        (Be*atles) Co*me To*gether – Sungha Jung….

        THE reason why some Black Men Won’t Date Or Marry Black Women….

        Listen carefully! If I was GAY (that’s like a DEATH SENTENCE to me), which I NEVER HAD BEEN ONE because it’s really not my problem! See all those RACIST WHITE GAYS (CLOSET GAYS) at CHRISTIAN CHURCHES, at GLOBAL MASS-MEDIA, at WALL STREET, and at CONGRESS! They all would be so fucking DEAD by now for standing in my way of what I wanted most such as GAY MARRIAGE if that is my intended goal! I would be doing those REVENGES now! I would be IED their homes, and shooting them down Gianni Versace EXECUTION style (not representing any HOT ASIAN MEN on his RUNWAY) until they all are fucking DEAD! No more OPPOSITIONS to GAY MARRIAGE, too! I’m really an-eye-for-an-eye, tooth-for-a-tooth kind of guy when comes down to it!! >=)

        Taurus PT100 GAY Whitey (Gianni Versace) KILLER (if YOU want to have your GAY MARRIAGE, try KILL OFF those Anti-GAY-BUT-SO-RACIST-WHITE-GAYS first, but I don’t think YOU really even care about that when YOU just want to harass our ASIAN PEOPLE because YOU have some CREEPY ASIAN FETISH)….
        http://www.verumserum.com/?p=1029

        MALCOLM X: THE HOUSE NEGRO AND THE FIELD NEGRO….

        I’m 100% HETERO-SEXUAL ASIAN, and I guess that I’ll just have to wait a long time for ABORT GAY GENES to see those REVENGES finally served to your RACIST WHITE GAYS and even to those TOKEN “GAY” ASIANS that hated our ASIAN PEOPLE so much that they always takes their RACIST WHITE GAY SIDE at USA as well and even going as far as kicking us when we are down on ground to please their WHITE MASTERS!! >=(

        As a HETERO-SEXUAL ASIAN, my ULTIMATE GOAL is to give our ASIAN PEOPLE as a WHOLE that POWER to BOYCOTT and POWER to DEMAND for our ASIAN RIGHTS even in USA more than anything else! To do that would simply required our ASIAN POPULATION to GROW at USA just like what’s happening to HISPANIC RACE! That way our ASIAN PEOPLE even at USA and outside of ASIA can have DIGNITY that we deserved!! >=)

      • Kurt says:

        Why all this talk of revenge and terrorism? (You propose using IEDs against your opponents!) I think that everyone should be welcome in this country, and that includes Asians, whether they “breed” with other Asians (and produce “beautiful Asian babies”) or not. However, given how anti-white you seem to be, why don’t move to Asia (wherever your family came from)? Not to make ME happy — I think you have just as much a right to be here as I do — but because YOU seem so disgusted with the United States and American culture. Why subject yourself to so much degradation? Wouldn’t you have a happier life surrounded by Asians producing purebred children?

        Anyway, I don’t think you are a doormat who only wants to debase himself as a sex slave for whites. After all, we clearly agree that John Cho is dreamy, even though you also think he’s some kind of race traitor. I’d rate your hot boy list in this order: 1) Justin, 2) John, 3) Ashton, and 4) Brad. This isn’t just based on looks, but because Justin is clearly the most talented: he sings, dances, and acts well, and can even play comic roles. That kind of ability is way sexy. I’m sure lots of Asian chicks dig him too. Which of those guys would you most want to date?

      • FUCK_OFF_RACIST_WHITE_GAYS says:

        Kurt,

        “Why all this talk of revenge and terrorism? (You propose using IEDs against your opponents!) I think that everyone should be welcome in this country, and that includes Asians, whether they “breed” with other Asians (and produce “beautiful Asian babies”) or not. However, given how anti-white you seem to be, why don’t move to Asia (wherever your family came from)? Not to make ME happy — I think you have just as much a right to be here as I do — but because YOU seem so disgusted with the United States and American culture. Why subject yourself to so much degradation? Wouldn’t you have a happier life surrounded by Asians producing purebred children?”

        No, I’m talking about making BEAUTIFUL ARTS as they always had been, and BEAUTIFUL ARTS sure KILLED…. don’t they…. haha! When your RACIST WHITE FAGGOTS (those VERY CLOSET GAYS) do their KILLING or MASS-MURDER, it’s just ART but never will they label it as REVENGE and TERRORISM! If YOU don’t like IEDs, then give them TANKS and JET FIGHTERS to make it more of a FAIR FIGHT while YOU are stealing their OIL…. hehe!! ;-)

        NIGGER, WHY SO SERIOUS?….
        http://thematrixforeal.blogspot.com/2010/08/race-issue-volume-121-issue-150-nigger.html

        GLENN BECK is one of your own CLOSET GAYS with that same BS ANTI-WHITE RHETORIC just because our MINORITY don’t want to suck his GAY RACIST WHITE SMALL DICK, which is kind like on this FORUM with SMALL DICK KURT….

        Glenn Beck’s Big Gay Moment (FOX are FULL OF CLOSET GAYS aside to GLEE)….
        http://gawker.com/5212220/glenn-becks-big-gay-moment

        Sometimes, we need to face TRUTH about what those ARTsy-FARTsy really do….
        http://www.funfacts.com.au/the-effects-of-glasses-on-people/

        ART by Closet GAY John Wayne Gacy….
        http://www.museumsyndicate.com/artist.php?artist=475

        ART by Closet GAY Adolf Hitler (Zion-CHRISTIAN and their Zion-JEW Bud-BUDDY did far WORST THINGS these days on a GLOBAL SCALE)….
        http://www.museumsyndicate.com/artist.php?artist=12

        Why the Bush family invaded Iraq….
        http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NM1Rq4Q3qYY

        John Perkins – America’s Secret Empire….

        Economic Hitmen….

        Here is one of those (CAN’T BE GAY but very GAY) Ted Haggard Zion-CHRISTIAN PRIESTS….

        Here is another one of those (CAN’T BE GAY but produced GAY DAUGHTER anyway) Dick Cheney Zion-JEW POLITICIANS….

        Here is another one of those (CAN’T BE GAY but YALE CHEERLEADER) George W. Bush Jr. Zion-CHRISTIAN POLITICIANS….

        Gay KKK (KURT sure knows how to have NEW WAYS of saying GO BACK TO ASIA to our ASIAN KIDS growing up at here now a day when they consistently BOMB and destroy ASIAN HOMES in ASIA, which KURT should GO BACK TO EUROPE as far as my concern and get off NATIVE INDIAN American LANDS)….

        Do YOU think that MINORITY like AFRICAN AMERICANS (SLAVES more like it) wants to be here on their FREE WILL? How about MINORITY like ASIANS at USA? YOU sure BOMB enough SHIT in ASIA like AGENT ORANGE and much more….

        I always wonder WHY that I as ASIAN KID have to grow up here in USA when USA continue to have their RACIST WHITE SUPREMACY BS WARS in our ASIA and BLOWING UP our ASIAN HOMES in ASIA and taking our ASIAN RESOURCES and ASIAN WEALTH from our ASIAN LANDS and our ASIAN PEOPLE….

        Asian Wealth Will Now Grow Twice As Fast As The Rest Of The World….
        http://articles.businessinsider.com/2010-06-23/markets/29965342_1_world-wealth-report-millionaires-asia-pacific

        Three billion people in Asia could get rich by 2050, Asian Development Bank says….
        http://www.globalpost.com/dispatch/news/regions/asia-pacific/110504/asia-development-bank-3-billion-people-rich-2050

        Don’t worry about me and other EAST ASIANS on LEAVING HERE because that’s our PLAN basically! I and most of our EAST ASIANS will do exactly that when our EAST ASIANS made enough of MONEY at here to retire back home or when our EAST ASIANS have RIGHT SKILLS and ACQUIRED GREAT CAPABILITIES to have our EAST ASIA grow in more WEALTH when more of our EAST ASIANS do come back to EAST ASIA!! >=)

        NY Archbishop Fears Gay Marriage Will Make Us Asian (nice to have another CLOSET GAY Christian PRIEST labeling our ASIAN MEN as GAY and WEAK again when they are more GAY than any of our ASIAN PEOPLE that can ever be, which is just like their GAY-As-Hell Closet Gay GLOBAL MASS-MEDIA, too)….
        http://www.queerty.com/ny-archbishop-fears-gay-marriage-will-make-us-asian-20110616/

        Our EAST ASIANS (GAY or not) should all come back to ASIA to help our ASIA grow in WEALTH….
        http://www.hotelclub.com/blog/10-best-gay-districts-in-asia/

        I have no problem with most GAY ASIANS unless they are those ones harming our ASIAN PEOPLE by intentionally insisting that ALL of our ASIAN MEN are all GAYS and all WEAK when that just open up more BS EXCUSES for our ASIAN PEOPLE to be attacked by their RACIST WHITES and RACIST BLACKS outside of ASIA especially in USA….
        http://newsone.com/1801685/video-white-teens-brutally-beat-asian-boy-while-calling-him-n-word/

        Their RACIST WHITE GAY MEDIA are already doing this to our ASIAN MEN (that’s GAY or NOT when those RACIST WHITE GAYS won’t even fight for their own GAY RIGHTS instead of bashing MINORITY daily)….

        It is not GAY ASIAN’s JOB to SHIT on ALL of our ASIAN MEN along with those RACIST WHITE GAYS…..

        The True Story of Matthew Shepard ‘A Victim of Hate’ (let their WHITES kill off their own WHITES and their BLACKS kill off their own BLACKS because they obviously enjoy it anyhow, but don’t drag our ASIAN PEOPLE into their MUD ever) ….

        AmeriKKKa is really a place FULL OF SHIT when we don’t have that in our EAST ASIA! Our ASIAN MEN are 96% Hetero-Sexual with not GAY and not WEAK if they can’t even RESPECT that by showing our HOT ASIAN MEN with HOT ASIAN WOMEN COUPLES and CUTE ASIAN KIDS on SILVER SCREEN at USA! Do YOU think these SCUMBAGS will wanted TRUE EQUALITY or their GAY RIGHTS? They simply don’t when comes down to it because if they do wanted it that badly! They would have it by now with GLOBAL MASS-MEDIA at their FINGER TIPS!! {roll my eyes}

  4. gayasiangeek says:

    Dear F_O_R_W_G,

    Thank you for the lengthy response. It’s always nice to hear a different perspective.

    I don’t know how my article on the death of a gay Asian designer implied that he was, or we are, oppressed by gay white guys; or that I do not support rights of all East Asians because I am focusing on a gay person from a gay Asian perspective. Maybe you can explain.

    Suicides are complicated, so I don’t assume that Tobias was in any way discriminated against. Not for being gay certainly in the fashion world. And not for being Asian, as there are many successful Asian designers, such as Vivienne Tam and Jimmy Choo, which are household names, with latest hot designer being Phillip Lim, a Cambodian-American designer. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/01/20/fashion/asian-designers-make-an-impact-in-paris.html

    I’m glad you are in support of gays as brothers, but I don’t see how I’m not supporting straight Asian causes. If your comment is in response to this site that narrowly focuses on gay, Asian or geek related topics, then I’m sorry that I can’t change what I’m interested in. You might be interested to know that Model Minority (http://www.modelminority.com/) is one of several sites that focus on empowering Asian in America. If you don’t think the site is not radical enough for you, try Angry Asian Man at http://www.angryasianman.com/

    As for having a TV show like Bill Cosby and George Lopez, we did have one. It is called “All-American Girl” (1994-1995), starring Margaret Cho. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0108693/ I was not around when the show came out and thus could not tell you why the show did not succeed. From my research, the show got mixed reviews and was mostly negative from the Asian American community. If Asians don’t support it, then why would anyone else support it?

    I can only assume that blacks and Hispanics can laugh at themselves and that Asians have no sense of humor. But seriously, maybe Margaret Cho’s comedy is not everyone’s cup of tea. Or maybe the show is too racist. I will have to judge it for myself when I have watched it. For now, I can say that we, Asians, have gave it a try and it didn’t play out.

    I can understand your complain regarding the negative roles that Asian men have played on TV and movies. From the overly flamboyantly gay characters that Alec Mapa plays, to all the crazy antics of Ken Jeong in his many roles that play up certain negative stereotypes. But I can assure you that violence, such as Andrew Cunanan’s, justified or not, is not the way to change popular beliefs. It only enforces the stereotype that Asians are crazy and unpredictable.

    If you want to change hearts and minds and not kiss-ass to someone else, then I encourage you to do so positively. Be a role model for other Asians. Make it big the right way and the honest way. Don’t fuck things up like John Liu and perpetuate the stereotype that the only way Asians can make it is by cheating and fraud. If you don’t want to kiss-ass, then make it big without kissing any asses. Show us how it’s done and we will follow in your footsteps.

    Thank you for the support.

    • FUCK_OFF_RACIST_WHITE_GAYS says:

      gayasiangeek,

      “Suicides are complicated, so I don’t assume that Tobias was in any way discriminated against. Not for being gay certainly in the fashion world. And not for being Asian, as there are many successful Asian designers, such as Vivienne Tam and Jimmy Choo, which are household names, with latest hot designer being Phillip Lim, a Cambodian-American designer.”

      WRONG! SUICIDES are rather STRAIGHT FORWARD! Any people that believed that they had nothing to live for will take their own life!! =/

      Here are some of those REASONS:

      They owe DEBT that can’t never be repay (no debt forgiveness like in USA)
      They will DIED soon with something or HIV (it is DEATH SENTENCE for many)
      They were REJECTED by lovers (probably kill that lovers before passed away)
      They were ABANDONED by benefactors (and, that person or S couldn’t make a living)
      They were ABUSED by others (used as slave labor in sweatshops)
      They were BULLIED by others (pick on and ostracized)
      They were LIED by others (used by USA MILITARY to murder civilians)

      Navigating the pitfalls of anti-Asian sentiments in online hookup sites (my profile will be NO HIV/AIDS (STDs) and NO GAYS (especially NOT those RACIST WHITE GAYS, which they should all be IEDs as far as my concern if HIV/AIDS are not killing them fast enough)….
      http://www.out.com/news-commentary/2012/01/11/no-asians

      Isn’t It Great That No Celebrities Have Caught HIV Since 1991??!….
      http://www.queerty.com/isnt-it-great-that-no-celebrities-have-caught-hiv-since-1991-20110718/

      100 Famous Celebrities with Sexually Transmitted Diseases (at least, most of our ASIAN MEN will be CLEAN except our ASIAN WOMEN)….
      http://stdcarriers.com/famouspeople/celebrities.aspx

      Those are 7 that I come up with, but I’m sure that they are more! I think that GAY ASIANS should help ALL of our ASIANS in kicking some RACIST WHITE GAY ARSES just like what Andrew Cunanan had done for some RESPECT there! Andrew Cunanan GAY GIGOLO is like Mike Jones GAY GIGOLO against Ted Haggard RACIST WHITE GAYS (very CLOSET ONES, too) but with a GUN, infamous Taurus PT100 Gianni Versace Killer!! >=)

      Kurt said on his other post,

      “PS: Anyone who posts things on the Internet with a high proportion of CAPITAL LETTERS sounds like a nut. Just saying.”

      I’m not those NUTS cutting their wrists and on SUICIDE WATCH! Just saying! I’ll live for a long time when I won’t die easily and don’t like to lose either except PAYBACK to those RACIST WHITE GAYS that are currently messing with me and our ASIAN PEOPLE so far! BTW, Ted Kaczynski typed in CAPITAL LETTERS, too!! >=P

      The Technium: The Unabomber Was Right….
      http://www.kk.org/thetechnium/archives/2009/02/the_unabomber_w.php

      George Carlin – Airport Security….

      Unabomber Lists Occupation As ‘Prisoner’ In Harvard Alumni Directory….
      http://www.businessinsider.com/unabomber-wants-to-keep-classmates-up-to-date-on-his-life-2012-5

      Ted Kaczynski wanted attention too much and got caught because he wanted to get caught anyway! That’s unlike Zodiac Killer!! =/

  5. FUCK_OFF_RACIST_WHITE_GAYS says:

    [Here are CUT AND PASTE error fixed on 2 of my incorrect YouTube VIDEO]

    John Cho and their GAY SUPPORTERS (our ASIAN PARENTS didn’t bring us over here to suck GAY DICKS either and be their DOOR MATS)….

    Brad Pitt on Prop 8 (a REPRESSED GAY supporting their GAYS)….

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  7. Gay says:

    Why doing that? Gay is human beings and we are proud of ourselves. With this modern open society, gay men are accepted so nothing wrong about being gay. I think there are many successful love stories about gay couples who have found each other in club or even online dating sites. That’s great. Many gay marriages are created in American, Europe and Asian countries. I am proud about that.

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